The next guy who comes along must have these basic qualities.

1) Tall, handsome, intelligent
2) allows me to keep quiet when i don't feel like talking, and not feel the need to ask me what's wrong.
3) humble, honest, down to earth, unpretentious
4) does not club or smoke
5) not screwed up or have a troubled background
6) must allow me to wear heels. and understands the need for me to wear heels.
7) must be able to sing
8) must be good at something.

any other vices or flaws, I'm willing to compromise.

Teo says the list seems impossible. which means I'll have to be content with being single for the rest of my life. Well, I learnt that if having loved someone once could bring you so much pain, then i would rather not have loved at all. Once is enough. I'm never going to allow myself to be treated that way again.