Why is it that when couples fight, it is always or mostly about how the other party is being unfaithful. in most cases, its the guy who has this problem. Can't guys just learn to be contented with what they have and stop fooling around? Its really annoying me how most guys are so unappreciative of what is in front of them and are always seeking new thrills in the form of a new girl.

Well, let me be a schizo and look at it in the guy's point of view.

See ar. if the girl can be more tolerant and understanding, then perhaps relationships won't break up so easily and so frequently. Since it is in a man's nature to be fickle inconsiderate and beastly, then women should cut them some slack and take it that their men are just having some fun and will come back to them given time. if ultimately two people still love each other despite all the foolish deeds on the part of the man, then breaking up should never be an option.

But then again, if a women is too tolerant and too understanding, then the man will take the woman for granted and think that his behaviour is acceptable.and he'll keep doing it.

Oh wells.

I believe, even in a relationship that seems to be stable, there'll definitely be a point in time when the man has cheated on the woman. I wonder if the woman really has forgiven and forgotten or will insecurities and mistrust be forever there.and how many of such r/s actually last till marriage and beyond.