Everyone goes into relationships for different reasons. What one person wants out of a relationship, might not be what the other person wants. So therefore, an outsider has no right to say whether a couple is compatible or not or whether they have a future or not. Simply because an outsider is an OUT-sider and do not exactly know both sides of the coin.

A particular asshole has been very forthcoming about airing his 'oh-so-smart' comments on how the boyfriend is a lousy shit ass and that we should quickly just end it before it gets worse. I'm of course aware of the disparity between the both of us. I thank him for being so concerned. But I definitely do not appreciate the super dramatic monologue he shared with me.

Just because I don't share how sweet and loving and caring the boyfriend is, doesn't mean he's a hooligan who should be dumped. Just because you and your broke girlfriend are so sweet loving and caring and see each other every freaking day, doesn't mean both of you will be together till the end of days and to eternity. I've seen too many breakups and bizarre situations in relationships. Its a well known fact that the matters of the heart is unpredictable. I will definitely laugh till all my teeth drop if you guys don't even last through the year. At least for me, marriage is not in my agenda. fancy wanting to marry a girl whom u have been for only 2 freaking months? That's ridiculous. really ridiculous.

I'm not able to say what is it I want out of a relationship yet, cuz I haven given it serious thought. I used to want financial relieve, arm candy and perhaps some drama and excitement. But not anymore. The arm candy element will always be in my list. But the others have to be cancelled out. I would like to say that I want a relationship that is simple and pure. One that is based on love, adoration, and respect. nothing more. But its cliched. and so doesn't exist. Whatever it is, I'm happy the way I am now. Although sometimes my courage and optimism fail me, I know as long as love exist between 2 people, a break up should not be necessary.

Thanks alvin, for clearing my mind. I'm having such a hard time defending myself from detractors. I'm tired.