The next time a guy leads u on and makes u upset cuz he only wants to be ur 'friend'. YOU have to learn how to get over ur feelings for the certain bastard. AND con't to be friends with him. Sounds absurd? read on. Because the bastard is a bastard, he would be oblivious to what and how u're feeling towards him and how inconsiderate he is to lead you on only to tell u that he doesn't like you. Befriend him. make him feel comfortable abt himself until he lets down his guard. then ATTACK. FIRE AWAY all the questions you 've always wanted to know the answers to. ASK and not be merciful abt it. shrug it away with an innocent face and a voice so saccharine sweet, he cannot bring himself to strangle you.

The torture subject as of yesterday, was YUANYUAN. yinghui. I hope you read this.

Its the harsh reality. you just have to soldier on. because such guys DO exist. We can't eliminate them by killing them off. so we gotta live with them. What we can do is, while trying to live with them, we can torture them. But before you can begin to harbour such evil thoughts, you must first learn to protect yourself. To protect yourself, you must learn to MOVE ON. You study psycology. so you should be clear regarding this aspects. Talk to yourself. Tell yourself you don't like him. When you make a conscious effort like that, your subconscious will work in your favour. You've been through even worse than this. you'll survive. don't worrie.

I raised your issue with yuanyuan. I didn't do it subtlyly. I did it very obviously and blatantly. I asked him straight, in his face. why did he do that in the past. I got most of the answers I wanted. But I had to dig them out of him and in the process, threw lots of sacarstic and in-your-face comments. He was peeved of course, just that he didn't show it in his face. I have to hand it to him.

Boys will always be Boys. Immature is the overall word to describe them.