My smarty pants friend johanan says:

eliminate all grey areas. Life is complicated enough as it is. Why make matters worse. like means like. Don't like means don't like.

I love jo so much. just went you think you can't sink any deeper down into the shithole anymore, he pulls you out of it.

Friend A once told me that she doesn't believe in developing feelings of love between two individual. She believes like means like. don't like means don't like. No matter how long the person tries to win ur heart, it is impossible for you to try and like the person back through the passage of time.

Friend B however tells me the opposite. She believes that it is possible to like or love someone a little more each and everyday. bottom line. She believes that love can grow over time. Oh and friend B is the one and only person whom I've met in my entire life, who shocked me by saying 'I think of sex as a very beautiful thing.' I don't haf any comments abt the statement in particular. I don't even think of it at all. Its so far away from my mind prolly because I don't advocate pre-marital sex no matter how ready two people are. Its just wierd to come across someone who really truly think of sex in that manner. Oh wells.