Two wrongs don't make a right.

It being a social norm, doesn't natuarally make it the right thing to do. But, being the open -minded person that I am, I shall look at it at different perspectives, instead of judging, which I'm very tempted to do. But manage to restraint from doing.

I'm talking about pre-marital sex.

Quite coincidently, a few days ago, I found a pamphlet on the table, with the caption 'sex in a relationship'. of course there were differing views. I'm just glad that there were still people who felt that virginity is sacred and should be saved for marriage. Sadly, these kind of encouraging comments were far and few, and printed in small font.

So if you ask me if I'm for or against sleeping with a boyfriend, I seriously have no answer for that. I only know that I won't be showing my bare ass to anyone i've known for a short period of time. However much I may love the person, however easily I may trust a person, sex is a different dimension from your everyday kissing and fondling. There are many risk involved in performing the act. I will first need to know, if the partner I'm sleeping with is worth all the trouble. think birth control, think contraception pills, think side effects (besides having bigger boobs) think sleepless nights worrying abt the period. think PREGNANCY. The mere thought of pregnancy is enough to send shivers down my back.

Whatever your reasons for doing it, don't try to defend yourself. I'm sure you KNOW what you're doing. like you've always known what you were doing. in the very distant past, in the very present, and let's hope, in the future as well. keep it up.